Thursday, July 3, 2008

Things only end badly or else they wouldn't end

To all you bloggers, that read my Introduction post. Billy and Betty abruptly ended their casual relationship tonight, after Billy decided to get on a party bus instead of spending a fun filled (i.e. sex filled) evening with Betty. Billy would not answer his telephone so Betty ended things over a text message. Billy has yet to respond.

Betty is drinking the champagne solo tonight!

Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Let the shenanigan's begin!

Hey you bloggers, be advised that this blog is about the shenanigan's in my life...the crazy train or my family, bleeding love or relationships, and the best friends a girl could ever have.

I will call myself Betty. I am Betty and I am "casually" dating a young man named Billy. Billy and I have a very complicated relationship...it could be the beginning of a sick and twisted soap opera or maybe I should say the midst. Billy and I started dating seriously back in 2001. It was long distance, he in the Marines and I in college. We dated for 2 1/2 years and in the time he went to Japan and Iraq on deployments lasting up to 7 or 8 months. I had some serious issues while Billy was in Iraq. I went through a deep seeded bout of depression, dropped out of my senior year of college etc. I was having what could only be called an early life crisis. In the middle of my depression, my feelings for Billy became masked by the pain and sorrow that I was feeling with the depression. When Billy got back from Iraq, I broke up with him. Unfortunately, we must not know what breaking up means because we continued to talk every night like clockwork on the telephone. He was my best friend and I was his.

I came into contact with an ex friend of his...Jeremy. Jeremy and Billy were best friends for a few years, but Jeremy became infatuated with me while we were dating and Billy ended the friendship. Jeremy tried multiple times to break us up...making things up that I had cheated on him with people etc. Well Jeremy and I started talking and seeing each other 2 months after I broke up with Billy. I dated Jeremy for about 6 months, we got engaged and we broke up within a month. Jeremy and I continued to see each other and when we decided to end things for good, we had one last rendezvous. That rendezvous turned into the adventure of my lifetime...I became pregnant.

Jeremy left my life and Gabby entered it (my daughter). Jeremy has yet to meet his daughter and she is now 2 1/2 years old. I have continued to talk to Billy on occasion, have lunch etc. About 3 months ago Billy and I started "casually" dating. Hmmm, casually dating...that leaves a bad taste in my mouth. What is casual dating? Well we text alot, rarely talk on the telephone, and maybe see each other a couple times per month. I don't know about you, but that does not seem like casual dating to me or dating at all for that matter. About a month ago Billy went to visit his sister in Georgia. There he told me that he would have died for my love and his still loves me and basically never stopped. Well now I can barely get him to acknowledge me except for text messages.

To be continued...

And don't forget have fun during your champagne shenanigan's!